Real human interactions and relations are often complex and complicated just like humans themselves. The reason is that humans are the most sophisticated beings on this planet in terms of as well as in physiological, so as in psychological matter.

The truth is we are a wonder of Nature and how often do we have this thought in our lifetime?

So this topic is exactly about human wonderfulness, uniqueness and complexity!

And what Human Molecule Theory and Matching Gems Theory stay for is one simple rule that applies in every day of our life and in every relationship we have ever attempted and will eventually. This is the rule of personality matching, or you can say interpersonal chemistry that occurs even after we have a single glance at some stranger. This is how it starts – first impression. And then we almost can feel whether this person would have something in common with us – and this includes not just love and sexual relationships, but also long term friendships and partnerships in business, work and life in general.

Initially this is a matter of primary judgment which is based on first impressions and can be based on clothing, appearance and manners. After that is the way that person talks, his intonation, voice timbre and of course what the person is actually talking about. This can tell us a lot about past, present and future plans and accomplishments.
So this is how it usually starts – almost every our relationship – friend or lover, teacher or business partner, even those when we were little children.

And what’s the result of all this is the making of our life filled with more values and the transformation of ourselves into someone that has got to know other people – some similar and others very different in their doings and belief and yet through this took a part from all each one and shared part of his inside with them.

So here is the metaphor behind these two ideas – we are so unique and so different from each other – even identical twins differ from one another. And when we meet a person in our life we act as molecules act in nature – we either match one another and a chemical reaction takes action or we stay inert.

The Gem Theory states that we are all like lapidary precious stones. Imagine high carat diamonds for example. They all have great value but when put one next to other in one place it’s so so difficult to get closer to one another because they are unique and each one has specific sides and edges.

Yes, it’s very much like a puzzle game where we are the elements of that puzzle. And really the art is to see the bigger picture!

P.S. Gem Theory is a notion one very close person shared with me..