So I was thinking (yeah, go figure, I think once in a while too) that really most people, including you and me, are merely mediocre. None of us is excelling at anything. I am sorry to break your heart...

I don't think it's in human nature to help others. People help others because they get something in return, whether it's gonna be recognition, money, a feeling of worthiness, etc. people are helping p...

Surfer, After your last post, I have a better idea of what you really meant and it does make sense. I was thinking in a more practical sense. You are right some people worry for the sake of worrying...

But then this question comes - sure you wanna get the best and so one but how do you do it? It's not a matter of how you execute the actual task of achieving what you want but what mindset do you crea...

I came across this thought sometime ago: "When you state what you want, you then either have to start making it happen or start making excuses not to make it happen." I've been thinking abo...

Surfer, I am not sure what you mean by " you should care about yourself in order to have strength to live". Of course you should care about yourself, it's a natural thing, it goes back to y...